What count the most in Life

I have read Nance blog and can't help recalling the things had happened two years ago, which made me realize what's most important in life, and make me re schedule things in my life.

What's most important thing in our life? Many of us would say, my family, my work, my love...but really what have we put in No.1 in our life? I believe many people put work in the first place in life, nowadays, like it or not, we just did it naturally. We are busy with earning money.Just like me, before. I had planned to call parents once a week,but finally only once a month sometimes. I wanted to spend much more time with my families, friends, people that I love, but finally we met once in half year or even longer. Work and the other things take most time of my life. I wasn't realizing anything wrong.But inside me I knew something missing, but didn't give a time to think about it. life rush rush, rush to 2010.

That day I was just out of the consulate of Australia in Zhu Jiang New Town, and on the way back home.At the cross point of Hua Cheng Da Dao and Hua Xia road, the traffic light was broken. There is no any policeman there to help. The bush at my left side is quite high, I can't see what was in my left side from Hua Xia Road until I drove to that point. I was driving slow, but WOW! There was a big car crazy running into me!!! For instinct, I pushed the gas to the end trying to escape! She was just some meters at my left side window...Peng! Even though I have tried my best, but she still hit on back of my car! I heard the big noise at the same time my little car flying out to the other side of the road. God, I might die this time! My life will be an end just like this! my families' faces flash in my mind, my friends.Right now I MIGHT leave them forever, they even cannot know, until I closed my eyes, there is no one will be my side...at the moment, I felt life is so short, I haven't done anything, anything for them! Peng! My car hit the ground and the head already turn the other way around, for instinct I push the direction wheel so hard that my neck felt so pain. Luckily that the car didn't turn over, or hit on the other car who was just driving there...but my soul flying out of body and I can't stop being panic. The woman who was driving that big car she get out of car and on the feet on the ground, crying. But her car was ok just the number plate also flying out to the other side of the road and some damage in the front, part of my car almost fell off. That time I need someone so so much! I called home but hang up because couldn't say a word yet from the panic emotion. later one friend of mine came to me and hold me, I felt so deeply affectionate with him, if you were never in this situation, you never know how much you need someone at that moment. I realized human being is so weak, and all we need is just love and accompany. Having someone be my side that time made me feel so good. 

So I was die once, I could say. Because I was ready to farewell this world at that second, when was in the sky with the car, and don't know what's the destiny at that point. This experience tell me so much and I have made the decision that, I will be there when people need me, even if they are not my families, not my friends, not my relatives. This car accident make me realized life is just so short, and what count the most is not money, reputation, not career, not how much you have, how big is the car, how nice is the house, what count the most is, when you need someone, is there anyone there for you or not? what count the most is, how much time and love have you given to people you love? Nance post said when she was down,her friends was there for her, so I know she have deeper feeling for meaning of life too! 

Remember that in a book it says, we should live every day like tomorrow we will be gone, tomorrow is the end of our life, then we would do the things we really want to do, live the life we want to live. Should not think that there will be more time, I can do it later. It also says should live the life like everything is in death's hand, he can take away from you anytime.So LOVE is the only thing left for us, really belong to us. I begun to be nicer to everyone, meet my friends regularly, told them and show them my caring my concern.Specially to my parents, begun to spend more time with them, listen to them, doing nothing with them but just in a same home with them...

I became more respectful for life, more cherish the time of life, and spending it meaningfully.And what's meaningfully here is, give out love and enjoying love, there is nothing more important than this...