▼What Good Women Really Want To Know▼
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Nothing more surely cultivates and embellishes a man than association with refined and virtuous women.
Monogamous men do exist but for the most part, most of my experience is that men whether they're
married or in relationships are moving around still having some fun. Men are out on the
street telling random women the truth. Most women want to hear the truth but
they're very uncomfortable with the truth and the way they react and
respond to the truth creates an uncomfortability in the man.
No two men are alike. "We are all imperfect. Still, we can be great". But "commitment isn't cheap."
The average human being likes to believe he or she is "good". But "sometimes the worst evil is done by good people who do not know that they are not good."
Speaking from the heart, from experience, and from careful observation though, when it comes to *serious* relationships and issues of both the human connection and the human condition there are certain constants men of good faith share:
Golden (Unwritten) Rules
Respect, consideration, honesty, and reciprocity are just the minimum. A good man's ability to prove he is indeed good can easily be limited or adversely impacted by specific circumstances. For example, bad influence — be they friends and/or family, women of bad faith such as gold diggers, *certain* Russian millionaire hunters and *certain* Chinese and Asian women of the ilk described here, say.
Or habits like a woman's self-centeredness—a double standard often overlooked.
However flawed, some men *do* have standards. And taking time to understand and respect them is as strategically important to the relationship as coming into a man's life and hoping to (own) keep him as *the* object of your emotional security.
Von Goethe was therefore saying nothing new about men when he opined: "No two men see the world exactly alike...The same man will, indeed, often see and judge the same things differently on different occasions: early convictions must give way to more mature ones. Nevertheless, may not the opinions that a man holds and expresses withstand all trials, if he only remains true to himself and others?"
Put simply, no so-called "lady" or "good woman/female" should ever assume a good man is there to be conned, used or pushed around at will. Only wimpish (虚弱的人, 懦怯者, 病弱者) "good" men (rich or poor) often are:!:
The Psychology of Men
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