it may not be fair what i am going to write here. i still believe and hope there are nice guys there.
like the title says Chinese men have no drinking manners.
yesterday, me and my friend (my old boss,crystal, 41) and one of our friend maomao (28y). we planned to have a girl's dinner in rebel rebel before the couchsurfing. but ended up me and crystal got treated to go to dinner with these 3 very important old men. honestly me and crystal had no idea there would be a 4th person in the dinner. not mention about those 3 vip old Chinese big governors.
as much as me and crystal hated to be there, for maomao, we stayed for dinner. giving her face. Crystal refused to drink, as those guys could tell she is vip herself. they didnt forced her to drink. and Maomao was already sick from drinking at the afternoon. i was the target along with maomao's girl friend. we both 24.
No matter how many times we said no to it. we got to drink. you guys know how it is. i am only 50kg. how many glasses do you think i can handle those henessy? i dont like the way they drink, how they want us to cherrish that "look, it is your honur to have dinner with me, i am the second hand in guangzhou." but why should i go bottoms up with you while i dont even know who you are. yeah , VIP, but i dont need to know you to live. 我又不认识你，我又无事求于你，我干麻要恭维你？仅因为你是高官？少给我来。
Crystal was getting pissed at the table of what those men said, big prever. they said it in a different language so we couldnt understand, but you can still tell. we were just pissed and finally could leave the table since the bottle was empty.
why do those men want us ---totally strangers to appreciate them while they act like a idiot? do they even know to respect girls? when we said no sometimes we really mean no. and forcing us to drink isnt the best way to show your man power.
Back to tonight.
it is my classmate's birthday. i wasnt never close with my university classmates. this guy, yayu, i like the least in my class. i went beacuse i miss my other classmates and see how is everyone doing.
they came over to my house after dinner. 4 girls 4 guys. the yayu and other guys were just sitting there watching me work. cutting the fruits, bring them drinks, cleaning up their mess. worse, made me drink, while i told them i cannot. they still push. ended up i need be get out of the game to advoid drinking. they didnt stop until finishing all my drinks and making a huge noise that i was worried about police coming. i told them, it is enough, we all have to go to work tomorrow. he just took the martini from me and bottom up. in fact i am so glad that they didnt break my glass table.
after these 2 evening. i am so done with it. i always though it was my problem not dating Chinese guys. i guess i find myself a good excuse. the only guy who force to kissed me in a club was a Chinese. why suddenly all these bad experiences come to my head.
my roommate is trying to talk me into there are nice guys from her company. but they are all sea turtles. （海龟，oversea Chinese students)
today is my 3rd day in my new work. they guys seems cool to me. let's stay this way. Rule No.1 Never ever drink with them, no ktv, no party, no dinner, no bar , no club, stay away from drinks.