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I can”t put myself in somebody else’ shoes. Not at all! It ‘s too small and hurt my ankle or it’s too large in which I can not walk. Even if I can , I still can not feel comfortable , for I know it’s other’s shoes , new or old, old man’s or young guy’s, male’s or female’s, or just a baby’s. even I put myself in and feel comfortable enough, I still can not think in other’s way for it just shoes which I wear unwillingly not the thinking ways I wear , so the result is that I think in my way and speak in my angle while in other’s shoes . you see, it does not work at all. The point is , everybody has a angle, you do not have to look in other’s way, but you need to know others have their own ways which will be tough for you to understand and follow. It is enough. Admit people are different , what you can do is to choose the people who share the same  background and similar thought to live with  , as for others , knowing their difference is the edge by which you can make youself far away from them . after all nobody will really bear to inquire why strangers are strangers . so, walking away is the best solution to make the man you can’t understand into a stranger . then no harm.