I only sign up here to get your opinion for my friend.
My friend is a girl, she and her bf they are together for several years, also came to the stage talking about marry.now her bf bought a big house, and she sold her apartment, he suggest to use all the money of her apartment to decorate the big house which is only written under his name. She is going to do that and also hesitate because at the stage talking about marry there are a lot of problems coming up in their relationship too. And the girl of his office just hitting on him. Maybe they are building a sweet family together, maybe also she would lose all her money and the big house has a new housewife at the end...what 's your opinion gzstuffer friends? if was you, would you do that? please tell me how you think. I will show her my good friend.
Like sands through the hourglass, so are the days of our lives.
Sounds a bit more like Dallas.
At least Dallas had a plot...
a prenuptial agreement and a 50-50 contribution to the house, plus both their names have to be included in the contract. If all else fails, at least your friend still has something left for her. That's her only risk. Having a broken heart is still better than having a broken heart and being broke at the same time.
and why does he even decide for her money, they're not even married yet? If I am her I would be totally pissed.
I totally agree with this one, plus: the man should never touch the girl's money. Especially in China, she could just say something about his virility. He'd never ask for money again.
So if a man shares cost of living with his wife he is not viril?
Hmmm, everyday one learns something new in GZ Stuff.
better let them decide, some times friends and public will bring problems, its always depends how they feel with each other, how deep and true there relationship are....in my opinion this is not the public topic
exactly. now that the OP made her friend look like a greedy person with paranoia.
Im totally agree with your comment Nelsie!!!
Well, when it comes to the discussion with money, property, more or less it does harm the relationship between people. I hope there is enough love to solve all the problems. however, in this materialistic society, it seems money matters to all, even in marriage.